Randa Habib
Using fists instead of brains to solve problems has become a trademark in Jordan. One hears about violent incidents over social, family or political issues almost every day.
But the phenomenon is new in Jordan where, in the past, feuds were solved in different peaceful ways.
" For example, a former deputy was beaten in broad daylight while buying bread and a serving MP hit a policeman, apparently because he was unhappy with him " At times of serious disputes, people turned to wise men for solutions, and their judgment was uncontested. Issues were resolved before reaching a point of no return. Morality as well as certain boundaries were well respected by all.
For any problem between two people, there was always a relative, a friend or a tribal leader to solve the matter peacefully. But today, unfortunately, things have changed. The influence of such wise men has almost disappeared and use of force has become a common practice, instead of dialogue.
Some stories were made public. For example, a former deputy was beaten in broad daylight while buying bread and a serving MP hit a policeman, apparently because he was unhappy with him. A minister lost his temper, beat a producer and threw a bunch of papers at a woman employee.
A child lost one eye after a teacher beat him with a stick, and a woman was hospitalized after her husband beat her heavily.
This indicates weakness, impatience and erosion of values, and gives our society a bad name. Intelligent individuals do not resort to violence.
*Published in Jordan's THE JORDAN TIMES on October 29, 2009. |
